When people think about Self Defense, they automatically picture a group of people, wearing pajamas, striking the air with their fists or feet while making weird noises, similar to those produced by live turkeys being prepped for Thanksgiving Day.
The aim of this article is to allow you to understand how violence works by analyzing criminal wants and needs.
Let us begin with understanding Violence: Contrary to popular belief, there is no such thing as random violence, no outâofâtheâblue attacks. It always happens for a reason, and there are usually enough preincident indicators warning you of impending conflict. Violence can be divided into three stages: The PreâContact, the Contact, and PostâContact.
The most important stage is, contrary to what you were told, not the physical Contact phase, rather the PreâContact. By not being there, it canât happen to you. If you see trouble looking for a victim, you can avoid it or escape. That is true Self Defense.
Okay, so, what do we look for? How do we avoid and deal with it?
First, we need to understand basic criminal behaviors, which include their wants, fears, as well as the victim selection process, along with the fundamentals of awareness, crucial in countering violence. Please note that I use the term âcriminalâ generically: It could indicate a mugger, rapist, egoâjock, thug, terrorist, etc. Any aggressor using any form of assault (Be it verbal, physical, emotional, or behavioral) against you will thus be labeled as such for simplicityâ sake.
Many make the mistake of underestimating criminals, passing judgment on them, saying theyâre unpredictable. Others make them look as if theyâre invincible monsters, some new unstoppable Terminator model against which there is no defense. I humbly disagree with both views. Criminals are, first and foremost, human. They have wants and fears and desires just like the rest of us. While we had opportunities such as schooling, an education, and a loving family to support us through our early and teenage years, they most probably had abuse, violence, and neglect. Criminals choose crime mostly because of a lack of opportunities and because thatâs all s/he knows. Violence against others is the way that allows them to achieve their aims in life. While their upbringing is saddening, your responsibility is to survive the mugger threatening you with physical harm, not to give him therapy.
Regardless of the reasons why they became criminals, the path chosen is one for life, and it is a risky career that allows no second chances. Those working in the medical profession can, even in the event of an oversight or tragedy, live after it and learn from the situation. On the other hand, criminals cannot afford any false move, as the outcome is permanent injury, death, or imprisonment. As a result, bad guys have developed numerous skills and tactics ensuring their survival on the job.
Unlike most people who know a lot of techniques and moves, a seasoned criminal knows only a few. The difference between both groups is that, while the former THINKS that his stuff works (after trying them on willing friends and consenting training partners), the latter KNOWS that his way is effective, not from theory but from realâworld experience: Namely, using the material effectively and consistently against real opponents fighting back for their life, limb or wealth.
Despite their skill and familiarity with violence, criminals are not supermen; since they have wants and fears, they can be manipulated, deceived, and hurt enough for us to survive or escape.
Starting with wants, a criminal covets three things from a victim: Valuables, Body, and Life, which are summarized with the acronym VBL.
Valuables consist of anything that has any (financial or other) worth to the aggressor. It includes but is not limited to money, jewelry, clothes, cars, cell phones, even insignificant objects. Physical assault and battery is used (The Means) to get Valuables from others (The End).
Second is Body, meaning the criminal is interested in physical violence as an end in itself; it includes giving a beating, mutilating, raping, unwilling organ donations, and other lovely things you donât want to be a part of.
Last is Life. The perpetrator wants you dead for some reason. There are many types of people eager to end your life: Professional killers, serial killers, angry aggressors, jealous partners, and 30âyearsâoldâsexy-newâstepâmothers, among others. The bad news is that a professional killer determined to snuff you out will probably succeed. The good news is that, unless youâre into politics, organized crime, or messed with the wrong crowd, you wonât have a contract killer on your tail, as they have bigger fish to fry. As for dealing with the rest, awareness, avoidance, prevention, deâescalation, psychological manipulations, and physical retaliation (depending on the force continuum, unarmed, less than lethal, or lethal)
Like all of us, criminals seek to attain happiness and pleasure, and do their best to avoid pain, hardship, and other bad stuff. As a result, they tend to avoid three things: Unacceptable levels of pain and injury through Overwhelming Violence, Incarceration, and Drawing Attention to the situation (OVIDA).
All bad guys expect some form of resistance by victims: punches, shoves, kicks, elbows, knees, throws, jointâlocks, as well as other types of conventional attacks made popular by action movies and bad actors. Naturally, no criminal wants to be on the receiving end of any strike or counterâattack, but they expect them anyways, and are psychologically and/ or physically ready to deal with most of them (Who said that bad guys didnât train?). However, the vast majority of criminals do not expect a victim to effectively use the startleâtoâflinch reaction effectively to protect him/herself from the attack, and retaliate viciously. Give Mr. Mugger more damage than expected, anticipated, or acceptable for him and he will either: 1) Flee the scene or 2) Be incapacitated enough allowing you to escape.
One of the greatest misconceptions is that criminals fear the Police and the Justice System. Unfortunately, nothing could be further from the truth. Let us get something straight about the Police: Most of them are great people, doing an amazing job of protecting and serving their communities. Some of them are bad apples, worse than the criminals themselves. Many donât care about their duties and just want to finish their shifts and go home to their families. Regardless of which type of cop is sent over to deal with the emergency call, it is already too late: Law Enforcement is reactive, meaning the Police reaches the crime scene AFTER the crime has been committed, which, in the case of rape, battery, aggravated assault, kidnapping, or attempted homicide, is bad news for the victim(s). Additionally, Justice is blind and, thanks to connections, politics, whoâknowsâwho, good lawyers, and loops in the legal system, many criminal elements of society are back on the streets in no time (or never processed). This means that the average evilâdoer can do his deeds in relative peace and quiet. Despite that, perpetrators don’t want to get caught, because there still is a chance of doing jail time: Last time I checked, prison is not a good place to be in, and criminals know it; being someoneâs bitch is not fun at all so bad guys keep on improving their craft to avoid being Bubbaâs cellmate. A smart criminal will use whatever means necessary to prevent incarceration and maximizing his gains, through lowârisk target selection, use of overwhelming force, or focusing on less dangerous activities to reduce the chance of being thrown in a cell by a cop.
Finally, most criminals seek to avoid attention getting drawn to the current situation: itâs not good for business to have their illegal pursuit interrupted by someone hellâbent on aiding the victim(s) as it translates in either pain, incarceration, or both for the perpetrator. Yelling âFireâ, making noise, drawing people in, increases the chances of survival and reduces the bad guyâs options. A word of caution though; Assassins, serial killers, religious fundamentalists, terrorists, among others, may want attention, for one reason or another. This is why it is optimal to do all three things to maximize your chances of survival.
Ok, now that you have a small understanding of how violence happens, and what criminals look for and try to avoid, we can start with providing you with some pointers regarding violence avoidance and survival.
At Salvos Modum, we follow a simple colorâcoded system to indicate levels of awareness. First is Code Green: This is any place with a good, solid lock preventing uninvited access to you. The only place I personally consider Code Green is my home, where I know I can lower my guard.
As soon as you leave your castle, and start walking around in daylight, you need to be in Code Yellow. Code Yellow means that you are constantly paying attention to your surroundings, people, where youâre going, whoâs around, etc. No, itâs not more paranoid than looking at both sides of the road before crossing the street.
Anytime you feel sick, tired, injured, walk around at night with or without friends, feel lost, have a small child in your care, you are in Code Red: Bad stuff is either going on or will be coming your way soon. This means you have to pay extra attention to everything around you, especially when you feel tired after a long day. Why is that man chainâsmoking in that empty parking lot at night, dropping his cigarette and coming towards you at 3AM? (Hint: Heâs not a grateful acquaintance who realized that smoking is bad and who is rushing your way to thank you for lending him Allen Carrâs Easyway to stop smoking book).
Please understand that, while an article can offer insights about Personal Protection, it does not replace handsâon training. To acquire specialized skills you need specialized training. In our seminars, we go in a lot of details about what to look for, signs of upcoming trouble, and do scenario training replicating realâlife with all that it entails (Adrenaline dump, deterioration of skills under stress, dealing with fear and anger, utilizing the startleâtoâflinch reaction as a protective platform from which to launch gross motor movements offensively, and much more). Enrolling in one of our workshops will give you the tools needed to survive violence, whatever its type.
